Blogging once again.

Blogging once again.
(Not a break-up blog, just sayin')

Here I go again.

Where do I begin? I was thinking of a topic to write about.. And for the past couple of minutes, the only thing that keeps popping in my mind is nonetheless, the famous four letter word: L-O-V-E. People go gaga over this topic.. Over and over and over again. And I'm one of them.

Ahhhh! Love, love, love. Why make lives complicated?

It's not everyday that you will find someone whom you will love the most and give your whole heart.. And sometimes even your soul. When we love, we give everything. It comes to the point that you yourself don't even have anything left for yourself. You give every bit of your time and effort for this one person who you thought was the one for you.. And yes there's always an exception. Some will indeed find their soulmates or "better half", but in the endless stream of loveless and hopeful singles... We are still in search of love. Hoping that love comes finding us.. At the right place and in the right time.

Being inlove is the best feeling that a person could ever feel. But it could also bring us the worse of all pains. Sometimes we learn how to love the hard way. It is the most painful when the person you truly love hurts you in an excruciating pain that no physical pain could ever replace. They say emotions when damaged is worst than physical affliction. I've learned that it takes years and years to build up a relationship based on trust but it will only take seconds to destroy it. Yes, SAD reality. We loved so much but we experience pain in return. So does rejection and the feeling of being taken for granted.

We may question God or His promises when we experience heart aches and heartbreaks but always remember, God uses or allows circumstances in our lives simply because He loves us so much. He wants to teach us and wants us to learn from our mistakes. There is this quote in twitter:

“Sometimes, we need to be hurt in order to grow. We must lose in order to gain. Sometimes, some lessons are learned best through pain.”

Yes, life and love is best learned through pain. We loved and lost but better than not ever loving someone at all. Love is an oxymoron of its own. It is bitter sweet. We have to embrace the fact that we are HUMANS and that we will face hardships and trials, but we learned to love because God loved us first. I'm telling you, cast all your pains and miseries to Him, He will lead you to the right path. And He will show you how beautiful life is when we first learn to love Him and ourselves above anything else. :) Live, love and learn.


Adios! It's 12:01 AM, time to hit the sacks. Sorry for the non-sense. Hahaha! Antok na eh. Writing this with my other eye closed and ready to sleep. *winks*