Convos to die for :)

Maka-title, wagas! Hehe! Just because I'm in the mood to write.. (Pagbigyan!) I just had a hearty conversation with my boyfriend and I realized that convos are really important to build up your relationship. If you don't communicate, how would you expect your relationship to work out, right? So, since I got nothing to do and sleep is just around the corner.. I've come up with a few convos to die for list that I believe everyone reading this could somehow relate upon. :)

Read on and find out.


To die for #1:
We all have this simple yet very meaningful conversations with our loved ones and we wish that time will stop and we can freeze that moment forever. Right?

To die for #2:
When you have this conversation and you learn something from each other each time and you know that it's not like the rest of the world, that the both of you have this cosmic effect on each other that you can feel the chemistry and love even across miles. Right??

To die for #3:
When you feel that you are important and what you say is important to that person that he/she values everything that you say and tries to put it into practice as much as he/she can. Right??

To die for #4:
When even a simple smile or a simple grin can melt angry hearts and can make two lovers realize the very essence of their relationship and would automatically patch things up without any hesitations. Right??

To die for #5:
When you can talk about the same topics over and over again, discuss all angles of the situation, repetitively and sometimes deliberately opening up the same issue or story but the both of you will never get tired of talking about it or actually, the both of you won't simply get tired of each other. Right??

To die for #6:
When time zones and locations are just props and the both of you know that no distance and time zone can ever break you apart and that talking to each other would always be the top priority. Right??

Talking is essential in a relationship. When you can talk to your partner about anything and everything under the sun, he/she's definitely for keeps. Do not miss out the communication part, love grows more when you know how to communicate. When you know how to be sensitive and when you simply know how to converse witht the one you love at all kinds of situations.

Time, effort, honesty and communication are the pillars of a successful relationship. It's something that we constantly work out. Start with yourself and eventually it will manifest in your partner and everyone around you.

Alright, time to sleep! Be blessed! Be a blessing!


Blogged. :)

40.

Sa mga oras na wala akong ginagawa, doon ako ginaganahang magsulat. May bago akong goal, maka-40 blogs bago matapos ang buwan na ito. Hindi ko alam kung kakayanin ko yun sapagkat ako ay isang dakilang tamad pagdating sa pagsusulat. Hindi ako yung tipong, "spur of the moment" may naisulat na. Kailangan may pinagdadaanan ako o usually, kailangan nasa mood.

Namimiss na kita. Minsan ang daling sabihin ang mga bagay-bagay. Ung mga salitang ang daling bitawan kapag tina-type sa keyboard o sinasabi over the phone.. Ang daling sabihin na mahal mo yung tao, miss mo na yung tao, gagawin mo lahat para sakanya kahit ung mga salitang di mo siya sasaktan. Pero alam naman natin ang masaklap na katotohanan sa likod ng mga ito, ang realidad ay kahit gaano mo kamahal ang isang tao, darating sa point na magkakasakitan kayo. Ang dating matamis, tatabang. Ang dating buong tiwala, unti-unting mauubos hanggang sa walang matira.

Hindi ko alam kung paano ko ba maipaparamdam sa kanya na mahal ko talaga siya at gusto kong magwork kung ano man ang meron kami ngayon. Hindi hanggang salita lang, hindi hanggang pangarap lang. Ang sarap sana ng pakiramdam na maiparamdam ko sakanya yun ng nahahawakan ko siya at nakikita ko siya ng harapan. Sabi nga niya sakin, ang daling sabihin pero yung maparamdam mo sa tao kung gaano sya kahalaga.. ibang usapan na yun. Sana sa kahit maliliit na paraan, kahit di kami magkasama napaparamdam namin iyon sa isa't isa.  

Ang tagal na panahon na akala ko wala ng ibang tao na darating sa buhay ko. Pero sabi nga ni ate efi, the best is yet to come. Sa mga oras na akala mo wala ng pag-asa, biglang may darating sa buhay mo at ipaparamdam sayo na meron pa. Kinikilig ako pag naiisip ko paano naging kami, kasi ni sa hinagap talaga hindi ko nakita na magiging kami. Close kami sa level na magkaibigan, pero bilang magka-ibigan, unexpected talaga. hehe! Nakakatuwa :) Di ko nga naisip na magkakasundo kami, kasi sa ugali naming magkaiba parang imposibleng mag-work out. But God has a different plan for us, and that is for us to be together (though not physically), tinuturuan kami maging patient and strong at matutong magmahal ng naghihintay dahil mas masarap anihin ang pinaghirapan kaysa binigay lamang sayo ng walang ka-effort effort. 

Nasaktan siya, nasaktan din ako.. Parehong takot magrisk at masaktan ulit, but we managed 6 months (4 months of which ay magkalayo kami) na masaya kami at lumilipas mga araw na alam kong mas minamahal pa namin ang isat isa. Ang bait ni Lord sakin, samin.. He gave us one more chance to fall in love an this time, alam ko, alam namin that this will be for keeps. :)

Kahit ilang away at misunderstanding pa ang dumating satin, hindi tayo maghihiwalay at makakayanan natin to. Kapit lang sa Kanya at laging balikan ang lahat ng unang alaalala nung tayo'y magkasama pa.

You make me smile :)

 Mahal kita Babe. Sana makasama na kita. Tiis tiis lang muna. 


Blogged. 

Balik-trabaho

It's Work, work, work!

Naiinis talaga ako, nabura yung sinusulat ko nung isang araw... Yung feeling na minsan ka na nga lang ganahan mag-blog, nabura pa. hehe! Anyway, hindi naman yan ang dahilan kung bakit ako magsusulat ngayon. Sabi nga sa EGR, dapat may magbago sayo... Yung mga pangit na ugali ay dapat iwasan at kalimutan na. Kung maaaring pwedeng umiwas sa mga bagay at taong hindi makakabuti sa atin, gawin nalang. Salt and Light nga diba? Hindi ka pwedeng maging asin at ilaw kung ikaw mismo wala kang gagawing pagbabago sa sarili mo. And for me, it should start in my workplace. I'll start today. :)

Devotion

If I change, everything around me changes

Nagbabasa naman ako ng Bible, tina-try ko yung best ko na magbasa at least everyday, pero at most times, especially dahil sa dami nga rin ng ginagawa... nakakalimutan ko na minsan magbukas at makipag-usap sa kanya. After our Encounter with God Retreat, isa sa mga natutunan ko at nais kong ipagpatuloy ang Devotion journal. Hindi kailangang makatapos ng isang book sa bible sa isang araw, just short verses to meditate and ponder upon. I started with the Book of Matthew specifically chapter 5, and nakakatuwa kasi I wasn't expecting that it would really affect my way of thinking for the whole week. Chapter 5 speaks about how we should act towards other people, how we should be the salt and light of the world and how we should do what the Lord pleases us to do. Mahirap sumunod, mahirap gawin ang gusto Niya at mahirap lumakad ng deretso lalo na kung tayo'y napapalibutan ng iba't ibang uri ng temptation. But then again, we have a just and loving God, He is always faithful to love and accept us, even forgive us from all our sins. 

Malaking tulong sakin ang devotion, I am hoping magawa ko siya everyday kahit busy ako sa work at sa ibang bagay. Sabi nga, meditate His word day and night and do not depart from His teachings, mahalaga na makausap natin siya araw-araw.

Bakasyon Grande 

Thank you Babe, kaps, pebs!

Date time :)

Nahirapan akong i-let go ang one week vacation (Nahirapan talaga? hehe!). Nasulit ko kasi ang bakasyon, nakapag-pahinga ako, na-enjoy ko ang madami kong "me times" at dates with babe maging ang 2 days na wala ako sa outside world dahil sa EGR and of course ang rejuvenated spiritual time ko with the Lord. Ang bilis ng 9 days, akalain mo nga naman 9 days din pala ang bakasyon. Di ko naramdaman, dumaan lang talaga. 

On the other hand, I feel good on my first day. No to negativity and yes to challenges and "work-related stress". Parte ng buhay manggagawa yan. We have to accept the fact that we are working, and kasama doon ang mahirapan ka from time to time, mainis, mastress, mabwisit, maubusan ng dugo dahil sa mga kasama... Pero bottom line parin nun, be thankful. Magpasalamat sa trabaho at sa sweldo, magpasalamat sa mga blessings at tanggapin ang bawat challenge as a room for improvement. :) 

Masaya ako, masaya ang aking puso at ang aking disposisyon. I feel so loved and I feel so blessed (in all aspects). I thank God I'm still alive and breathing, which is a good sign. Hehe! There are still a lot of chances to make things right. 

Tawang-tawa ako sa picture na to. Hehe! Kala mo babe ah. :))

Life is full of surprises and unexpected blessings. Just be thankful for everything and God will reward us with every good deeds. Wag mapagod gumawa ng tama sa kapwa, hindi man maappreciate ngayon, our Father in heaven is very happy when we make others around us happy. :)

Lez gow change the world one step at a time.

Be blessed! Be a blessing! :)

Huling araw

Bakasyon na maya-maya, mga saktong dalawang oras nalang at yes, bakasyon na! Ang tagal ko hinintay na makapagpahinga sa trabaho dahil totoo naman talaga, nakakastress. Dahil nga last day, ang bagal ng oras... at dahil ang bagal ng oras, naisipan kong magsulat. Aaminin kong hindi ako masipag magsulat, hindi ako yung tipong araw-araw mag-uupdate ng blog o kaya linggo-linggo. Ako ng tamad, walang inspirasyon.Pinapakialaman pa ng boss ko pati pagtype ko. MARTIAL LAW pati sa trabaho. Saklap ng buhay.

Nagbukas ako ng blogspot at nagbasa. Nakakaaliw ang nakaraan. Madami ka talagang matututunan. May isa lang akong napansin, hindi ko naman sinasadya.

Bakit ang dami mong nasusulat sa iyong nakaraan?

Isang palaisipan.

Nalulungkot pero hindi ako papaapekto. Finally, vacation here we come!

When all else fails...

Tears has been streaking down, my eyes are literally tired and im overly exhausted. I had enough for this day. I knew I was born to be strong and to stand up for what I believe in, but then again.. Im at a place where you have no voice and you dont really have a choice.

When everything in this world fails you, the only thing that remains is the fact that we have a Living God and that His word is true. It may sound absurd to some nor may sound pretentious to others, but actually prayers can move mountains and it can change hearts. Faith is to believe in something we cant see. To hold on to something we cant feel. To listen to something we cant hear. God is everywhere and he hears, feels, sees us.

I am starting to dislike my job in all aspects. I am feeling estranged and unhappy, but i asked God for this work and i will not give up just because I feel tired and people around me discourages me. I have a purpose on why I am here and I will hold on to God's promises that there will be better days.

Better days. Looking forward for better days. Looking forward to that DAY. That day when I can see you and hold you once again. To see my family, to see the people I love the most.

I trust in You Father, I believe that I can get through this with Your guidance and help.

When all else fails... There's always your family, friends, your partner, and ofcourse God.

Good night blogspot. Dont let the bed bugs bite.


""Do not judge, and you will not be judged. Do not condemn, and you will not be condemned. Forgive, and you will be forgiven. Give, and it will be given to you. A good measure, pressed down, shaken together and running over, will be poured into your lap. For with the measure you use, it will be measured to you."
Luke 6:37-38